I have made a lot of mistakes and acknowledge the fact that I have not always treated people as they deserve, but I do feel like I’m a good person and have good intentions. I’m not who I want to be yet but I’m getting there. I don’t really know why this is being asked…so I apologize if I have hurt you in the past.
I ended an emotionally abusive relationship and I thought I would fall apart without it. I thought I would be empty. After three year of talking every day, I figured loneliness would ultimately consume me. But I’m okay. And that is something I never felt in my relationship. I feel so much stronger and so much more complete than I ever did with that person.
So. To anyone in a relationship, whether it be friendship or romantic, get the fuck out of it if they make you feel the least bit insignificant even for a second. It’s taken me well over 6 months to get my sense of identity and confidence back. But, at this point, I realize I’m so much more than that. And so are you.